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Values Alignment

Evaluate how well your options align with your core values and beliefs.

Decision Setup

Rate Each Option Against Your Core Values

Rate how well each option aligns with your values (1 = Poor alignment, 5 = Perfect alignment)

Values Alignment Analysis

Alignment Summary

Complete the values assessment to see your alignment analysis...

The Definitive Guide to Values-Based Decision-Making

What Are Core Values (And Why They're Not Just Buzzwords)

Core values are the fundamental beliefs that dictate your personal code of conduct. Think of them as the DNA of your character—the internal compass that guides your actions, choices, and ultimately, your life's path. They are not fleeting preferences; they are enduring principles that, when honored, lead to a sense of purpose and fulfillment. A decision that conflicts with your core values, even if it looks good on the surface, will often lead to regret and internal conflict.

How to Identify Your Core Values

Before using the tool, take a moment for self-reflection. The most meaningful analysis comes from using values that are truly your own. Not sure where to start? Ask yourself these questions:

  • Peak Experiences: Think of a time you felt incredibly proud and fulfilled. What were you doing? Which values were you honoring? (e.g., Creativity, Impact)
  • What Enrages You: Think about something that frustrates or angers you in the world or in others. What injustice does it represent? The opposite of that is likely one of your core values. (e.g., Injustice vs. Fairness)
  • What You Admire: Who do you admire most in the world? What specific qualities do they embody that you respect? (e.g., Integrity, Courage)

Use the answers to these questions to populate the "Custom Values" in the tool above for the most personalized results.

The Science of Alignment: It's Not Just a Feeling

Psychological research consistently shows that individuals who live in alignment with their personal values report lower stress levels, higher resilience to adversity, and greater overall life satisfaction. When your actions and values are in sync, you experience a state of "authenticity," which reduces cognitive dissonance—the mental stress that comes from holding contradictory beliefs or acting against your principles. This tool is designed to help you achieve that state of alignment deliberately.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

What if a decision aligns with one value but conflicts with another?

This is a common and important outcome! For example, a new job might offer more 'Financial Security' but less 'Work-Life Balance'. This tool doesn't give you the "right" answer; it highlights the trade-offs with perfect clarity. It prompts a crucial follow-up question: "In this specific situation, which of these two values is my higher priority?"

What if my values change over time?

They absolutely can, and that's a sign of growth. Your core values may be stable, but their priority can shift with different life stages. It's healthy to revisit this exercise annually or whenever you face a major life crossroads to ensure your decisions align with who you are *today*.

My options all have low scores. What does that mean?

This is a powerful insight. It might be a sign that you need to find a third, better option that you haven't considered yet—one that doesn't force you to compromise your core principles. A low score across the board is often a red flag that none of the current choices are right for you.